Feeling a little unsure about starting soccer this fall? Don’t worry we’ve got you covered to make sure you get the goooooaall.
First, Sign-up
Sign-up now if you haven’t already. Most recreational leagues will be making decisions about teams and coaches for the fall season in the next couple of weeks (there’s usually a waitlist if registration has closed).
Some of the most popular leagues in the area are Carolina Rapids, Strikers and Charlotte Junior Soccer. If you have a really tiny tot consider Soccer Shots (they cater to ages 2-8).
In addition to recreational leagues also be prepared to be wooed by competitive team try-outs, tournaments and invitationals – most of which involve a lot of travelling. Like, a lot.
Charlotte Soccer Academy (CSA) is one of the top competitive clubs in the area. A former soccer mom of two says about her experience with CSA “You need to be prepared to give up your weekends to soccer. It creeps up on you — first you drive around Mecklenburg County and then the next thing you know, you are spending weekends in Raleigh or Atlanta. As long as you keep it in perspective — which means just letting your child enjoy the game and not thinking about college scholarships — it can be really fun and a good way to make new friends.”
Then, Gear-up
You will be expected to buy and wear the team uniform. Sometimes, the registration cost does not include the cost of the uniform.
You’ll need the team jersey and shorts, as well as shin guards and knee-high socks. Cleats are essential too, but don’t feel like you have to splurge on the shoes during your first season. You can purchase a suitable pair for around $20 and they’ll last longer than it will take your kids to outgrow them.
One other thing that first-timers may not know is that in some youth leagues you also need to buy your own ball. And, it’s not just a grab one out of the endcap at Target sort of thing; each age group needs a specific-size ball.
BYO Shade
So your kid may be ready to bring the heat onto the field but it’s you who will need the shade. Yes, even though it’s fall… Taryn Pearson whose girls ages 10 and 7 have played with the Carolina Rapids for 6 years says “It can get hot on the field so it’s helpful to have something to protect you from the sun (hat, umbrella, tent).” She continues “Also bring seating none is provided and this is something many people new to the sport do not realize until they arrive.”
This is also the time you’ll find out if you did a good job of coordinating with your friends… you’ll want solid sideline companions to get you through the season (and save you a spot when you’re running late).
Map It
Speaking of arriving, another pro-tip from Taryn. “Arrive about 15 minutes early. Parking can be difficult, the fields are busy and it’s nice to have time to find your field, get your chair and shade set up, and to give the kids time to get warmed up before the game.”
You may be playing at a different field for each game, consider downloading the field map from either the league or park website which also lets you know the field’s current status (yes, that’s a thing).
Snack Time
While you do need to be mentally and physically ready to log some serious field time (usually teams practice one night a week with one or two games on the weekend); keep in mind that you’re only providing snacks for the hour-long game.
Most teams set a roster at the start of the season with each parent being assigned one or two weekend games to provide snacks for the entire team. Try not to lose your mind over this… you won’t make every parent happy nor will you be 100% happy with what other parents bring.
Kiran Dodeja Smith, a certified holistic health coach and mom of 4 says “For recreational soccer, orange slices and water are the perfect recovery providing hydration and electrolytes. Steer clear of juices, Cheetos, Doritos or anything of the sort.” For longer or back-to-back games, try Kiran’s chocolate muffins the total prep time is next to nothing, they travel well, and will establish you as everyone’s favorite newcomer.
Keep it Friendly During the Friendlies
Don’t be thaaaat parent. Be supportive of all of the players and leave the coaching to the coaches. Taryn says “Soccer has been a very positive experience for our girls. It has taught them about teamwork, commitment, communication, hard work, and sportsmanship. Most of all they have fun!”
*Images supplied or sourced from Facebook pages of leagues listed.
