Choosing the right educational path for your child is a significant decision, and boarding school is an option that many families consider. While it may seem daunting at first, boarding schools can offer unique opportunities for growth, independence, and academic excellence. Let’s explore key factors to help you determine if boarding school could be the right fit for your child.
1. Your Child’s Personality and Maturity
Consider your child’s temperament and emotional readiness. Boarding school life requires a certain level of independence and adaptability. Ask yourself:
- Is your child self-motivated and responsible?
- Do they handle change and new situations well?
- Are they comfortable being away from home for extended periods?
Your answer doesn’t always have to be an emphatic yes. Boarding schools are also great places for kids looking to build these skills as well. “Boarding school can be an opportunity to develop executive functioning skills both in academics and in life,” says Katie Garrett, founder of Garrett Educational Consulting.
2. Academic Goals and Opportunities
Boarding schools often provide robust academic programs and unique educational experiences. Think about:
- Does your child have specific academic interests that a boarding school could nurture?
- Would they benefit from smaller class sizes and more individualized attention?
- Are there specialized programs (e.g., STEM, arts, languages) that align with your child’s passions?
“There are many types of boarding schools that cater to different learning styles, so there can be a place for all types of learners,” says Katie. Additionally, boarding schools are set up as living-learning communities so students have access not only to the teachers but also to academic support on campus that is available to all students.
3. Extracurricular Activities and Personal Growth
Many boarding schools offer a wide range of extracurricular activities and leadership opportunities. Consider:
- Does your child have interests in sports, arts, or other activities that a boarding school could support?
- Would they benefit from a structured environment that encourages personal growth and time management skills?
“Boarding school is an opportunity to invest not only in your current interests but to broaden your horizons to new experiences,” says Katie. There are many roles to fill at boarding school, and all students are expected to jump in and fill them, so there is a lot of opportunity for leadership development as well.
4. Social and Cultural Exposure
Boarding schools often provide diverse environments with students from various backgrounds. Think about:
- Would your child benefit from exposure to a more diverse peer group?
- Are you looking for an international perspective in your child’s education?
Because your child will be living and learning 24/7 with a diverse group of peers, they have the opportunity to develop more meaningful connections, and they learn to appreciate different perspectives and develop important conflict resolution skills.
5. Location and Distance
The school’s location can impact your child’s experience and your ability to stay involved. Think about:
- How far are you comfortable with your child being from home?
- Will the location provide new opportunities or experiences for your child?
“Remember, your child will not be coming home every weekend, nor will they want you on campus every weekend,” says Katie. “Boarding schools have many activities on the weekends to keep kids busy, so you are likely to see your child just as much if they are 500 miles from home as you would if they were only 100 miles away,” Boarding schools know that it is important for you to see your child and feel involved, however, so they make sure to plan opportunities for parents to come on campus and be involved.
6. Your Child’s Input
Perhaps most importantly, involve your child in the decision-making process:
- Is your child interested in or excited about the idea of boarding school?
- Have you discussed both the challenges and opportunities it presents?
“This is where it is important to have your child experience a boarding school campus,” says Katie. “Oftentimes, getting on campus, exploring the opportunities and talking with current students and admissions reps can help a student better decide whether boarding school is a potential option.”
7. Financial Considerations
Boarding school can be a significant financial investment. Consider:
- Can your family manage the costs associated with boarding school?
- Are there financial aid options or scholarships available?
We are seeing the cost of education go up across the board but it is important to remember that boarding school tuitions are “all-in,” meaning they cover education, room and board, sports, and most extracurricular activities. Many times, piecemealing these things together ends up being comparable to the cost of a boarding school education.
Deciding on boarding school is a personal choice that depends on your family’s unique circumstances and your child’s individual needs. By carefully considering these factors, you can make an informed decision about whether boarding school is the right path for your child’s education and personal growth.
Remember, many boarding schools offer individualized visit days and more elaborate open houses which can give you and your child a taste of boarding school life before making a final decision. Take your time, do thorough research, and trust your instincts as a parent. The right educational environment can set the stage for your child’s future success and happiness.
Garrett Educational Consulting provides boarding school and college admissions consulting services to students in the Carolinas, the US, and around the world. Contact us to find out how we can support your family.
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