Everyone has a friend who’s the hostess with the most-ess. Whether it’s a party or a weekend visit, it’s a good gesture (and proper etiquette) to come armed with a hostess gift. It doesn’t have to be fancy, but a small token of appreciation is always a nice way to say thank you for the hospitality. Bonus points if you wrap it — or at least stick it in a cute gift bag.
Let’s talk about what you shouldn’t bring. There are a few faux pas to keep in mind when selecting a hostess gift. For one, don’t bring food unless you’re asked, unless the food is something like a box of chocolates that can be enjoyed later. And if you bring wine, don’t expect it to be served that night — your host may already have chosen the wine for the evening. If the party is very fancy, you don’t need to bring a gift at all (especially if you don’t know the host well).
A bottle of wine and flowers are always nice ideas in a pinch, but we think you can be more thoughtful than that. Whatever you bring, the gift should be sincere and personal. We picked out a few gift ideas from local boutiques that will show any host just how much you appreciate them.
Bertie County Roasted Peanuts: $10.95 for a 32-oz. bag.Fresh Milk Shea Butter lotions, soaps, powder: $1.25 to $6.95Lucite cocktail napkin/guest towel holders with napkinsKeep drinks cold without diluting with ice.SOULinks, a summer read by local author Joan Wright
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